I’ll add California wine and ANYTHING owned by the Mormons. Andrew Adam Caldwell said on Facebook: If we are serious about marriage equality, all “domestic partners” should figure out exactly what dollar-amount of benefits they are losing out on in federal benefits (and in non-gay-marriage/DP states–state benefits) and then REFUSE TO PAY exactly that amount in federal (and state/local) taxes. Don’t refuse to pay ALL taxes, simply deduct the amount we are denied. Call it out as taxation without representation.